The Authentic Optimist Founder & Editor

Amy Roullier

Hi, I'm Amy a.k.a. The Authentic Optimist. I'm an aspiring author and self-confessed expert at oversharing (I'm still trying to work out if that's a good thing). I launched The Authentic Optimist in 2021, hoping to challenge and change the negative narrative around being single, and help anyone in single survive mode (a place I know all too well) journey towards single perfectly absolutely okay.

I'm also deeply passionate about destigmatizing conversations around mental health and emotional wellbeing, by doing my best to talk about this whole adulting thing honestly.  For a few more facts about me, just click on my face!

You are so much more than who you are dating, so change the conversation

You are so much more than who you are dating, so change the conversation

It wasn’t until I went single no mingle, that I realized how much dating had become an important part of my conversations with people. And by making who I was dating a highly discussed topic, I…

I feel more confused than ever about whether or not I want to have children

I feel more confused than ever about whether or not I want to have children

I’d always hoped intuition would kick in with age with a resolute answer to this question, but I feel more confused than ever about whether or not I want to have children. If you’d asked me…

“Are you Married? Dating? Oh, just Single then.”

“Are you Married? Dating? Oh, just Single then.”

Rewind back to 2016, where I was 31 and going through a divorce, so newly single. I didn’t plan to be single in my 30s of course, but there it was. Singledom. Suddenly feeling so much…